Quick answer
Н н is the n of “no”. Russian has no h letter at all — the nearest sound is Х х.
n
How to say it
The English n, but articulated slightly further forward, with the tongue against the teeth rather than the ridge behind them.
Н, П and И
Three letters share the same two uprights: Н has a crossbar in the middle, П a lid on top, И a diagonal. Reading a sign letter by letter once is enough to fix the difference for good.
The н- of него́
After a preposition the pronouns его́, её, их grow an н-: у него́, у неё, у них. The letter Н is doing real grammatical work there, not just sitting in a word.
Typical mistakes
Reading нет as “het”
“nyet”
Н is n.
Confusing Н with П on signs
crossbar = Н, lid = П
ПОЧТА and НОЧЬ differ by that one line.
Check yourself
Which word contains Н?