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Small talk

Russians do less small talk than English speakers — and go deeper faster when they do.

Quick answer

Safe openers: the weather, travel, food, what you do. Keep Как дела́? for people you know — with strangers a greeting is enough.

Openers that work

Кака́я пого́да!kakáya pogódaWhat weather!
Вы здесь давно́?vy zdes davnóHave you been here long?
Отку́да вы?otkúda vyWhere are you from?
Чем вы занима́етесь?chem vy zanimáyetesWhat do you do?

Keeping it going

Пра́вда?právdaReally?
Интере́сно!interésnoInteresting!
А вы?a vyAnd you?
Я то́же.ya tózheMe too.
Расскажи́те!rasskazhíteTell me more!

Ending it

Бы́ло прия́тно.býlo priyátnoIt was nice.
Мне пора́.mne poráI have to go.
Уви́димся!uvídimsyaSee you!

What to avoid at first

Money, politics and “how much do you earn” are normal between friends and awkward with strangers — the opposite of the English instinct. The weather, food, and anything about where you are from are always safe.

The smile

Russians do not smile at strangers by default, and a permanent smile can read as insincere. It is not coldness — warmth comes once the conversation starts.

Typical mistakes

Как дела́? to a shop assistant

Здра́вствуйте.

It invites a real answer, and with strangers that is odd.

Asking a stranger about politics

Ask about food or the city

Safer everywhere, and genuinely more interesting.

Check yourself

Which is the safest small-talk opener with a stranger?

The weather works everywhere; the other two are for people you know.

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